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Showing posts with label strip tease. Show all posts
Showing posts with label strip tease. Show all posts
Sunday, October 23, 2011
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Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Marisa Tomei in "The Wrestler"
I wanted to make note of Marisa Tomei's portrayal of "Cassidy" in "The Wrestler." Her portrayal of a woman that worked a job to save money to better herself while trying to manage the inter-personal issues with "Randy" played by Mickey Rourke was wonderful. I had kind of thought her acting was not strong after her initial popularity brought on by "My Cousin Vinny" but I note that I have not really seen her in any films since that one in 1992.
Her work in "The Wrestler" was strong and forthright and I felt she hit the characterization of her role spot on. She is a strong woman who holds Randy at arms length but her vulnerability and her empathy for Randy helps change her to come to consider being involved with him. She has the strength at the end of the film to walk away when Randy decided to wrestle when it is obvious it will kill him. It is a conditional love and most love IS conditional. She knows that to hold on to the idea of Randy as he has returned to be - a man lingering under the misapprehension that it is the love of his fans that can sustain him when really her love would (and should) be an appropriate agent of his redemption - will lead to nothing in return for her.
As to some of the more "mechanical" aspect of her role she is convincing as a stripper. Not at all a bad dancer and damn sexy for 44 year old woman (her age in 2008). Stay ups play a part in the film as well so stocking fans get that wonderful bonus watching the movie.
Her work in "The Wrestler" was strong and forthright and I felt she hit the characterization of her role spot on. She is a strong woman who holds Randy at arms length but her vulnerability and her empathy for Randy helps change her to come to consider being involved with him. She has the strength at the end of the film to walk away when Randy decided to wrestle when it is obvious it will kill him. It is a conditional love and most love IS conditional. She knows that to hold on to the idea of Randy as he has returned to be - a man lingering under the misapprehension that it is the love of his fans that can sustain him when really her love would (and should) be an appropriate agent of his redemption - will lead to nothing in return for her.
As to some of the more "mechanical" aspect of her role she is convincing as a stripper. Not at all a bad dancer and damn sexy for 44 year old woman (her age in 2008). Stay ups play a part in the film as well so stocking fans get that wonderful bonus watching the movie.
Sunday, October 4, 2009
The Art of Tease
We all do it. We hopefully all subject to it. What makes good tease? That subtle gesture, that look in their eyes or the overt actions or dress of your partner? I love subtlety. The nuances of subtle teasing bespeaks your partner's knowledge of you and what turns you on. If you ever want to uber-power your romantic or sexual life be good at teasing. Subtle teasing is an art that comes from you or your partner's knowledge and empathy of the person being teased. It can be a look or a gesture, perhaps a special fragrance.
Want to get me going? Vanilla scented candles work wonders for me. Sure this is not a direct physical act of teasing but it is something I have come to associate with foreplay or the aspect of fore-foreplay that can lead to a wonderful encounter. Please, not heavily scented cheap vanilla candles but soft light hint at vanilla will turn my crank anytime.
Words are good. Suggestive words and even delightfully explicit phrases timed right can be an act of tease. I once had my partner say to me as we were entering a church for a friend's wedding whisper close to my ear letting her lips touch that erogenous zone so lightly as to send shivers down my spine this, "I am all yours tonight." A soft squeeze of my hand and we entered the church. Believe you me my mind was not on the vows or the ceremony nor the dinner and the dance. My mind was on what was going to happen AFTER the wedding. She even had instituted a remote detachment from me as well keeping our touches wonderfully chaste and innocent expect for a slow dance later that night where she nestled her hips into me as we danced together and added, "Soon lover, soon."
Thank heavens we had a room at that hotel where the wedding was at!
Romance, passion, sexual desire is something to be cherished and developed. It keeps the romance alive, fresh, interesting and if done well exhilarating and more than satisfying. Want to get past the honeymoon period of any relationship? Then learn how to tease and be teased.
Want to get me going? Vanilla scented candles work wonders for me. Sure this is not a direct physical act of teasing but it is something I have come to associate with foreplay or the aspect of fore-foreplay that can lead to a wonderful encounter. Please, not heavily scented cheap vanilla candles but soft light hint at vanilla will turn my crank anytime.
Words are good. Suggestive words and even delightfully explicit phrases timed right can be an act of tease. I once had my partner say to me as we were entering a church for a friend's wedding whisper close to my ear letting her lips touch that erogenous zone so lightly as to send shivers down my spine this, "I am all yours tonight." A soft squeeze of my hand and we entered the church. Believe you me my mind was not on the vows or the ceremony nor the dinner and the dance. My mind was on what was going to happen AFTER the wedding. She even had instituted a remote detachment from me as well keeping our touches wonderfully chaste and innocent expect for a slow dance later that night where she nestled her hips into me as we danced together and added, "Soon lover, soon."
Thank heavens we had a room at that hotel where the wedding was at!
Romance, passion, sexual desire is something to be cherished and developed. It keeps the romance alive, fresh, interesting and if done well exhilarating and more than satisfying. Want to get past the honeymoon period of any relationship? Then learn how to tease and be teased.
Actually is should be: I will tease the boys/girls.
I call this overt teasing. We like this.
Subtle teasing using fragrance strategically placed and, at least for me, the use of a choker which is reminiscent of one of the aspects of my sexual awakening (thank you From Russia with Love) and something symbolic between two people.
Not looking at your partner can be a form of tease.
Sitting as a form of tease.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
There is a cornucopia of fetish nylon content on the webbie-sphere. Some good. Some bad. Some terribly conventional. Some very wonderful. I went bashing over to Legster and saw this interesting (to me) image set...
Shiny! Click on picture for detail.
Garter straps! Oh my!
Eventually the striptease culminates in stockings with boots. Not bad!
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