Saturday Observations

 

 

My need to write comes in dribs and drabs sometimes. There are times I feel as if my head will explode if I do not put it all down on paper. Then there are times that things seem like there is no need to write but still my head feels like it wants to explode.

At work today we were talking about sex with C who is 18 years old. He just got out of a short but very intense relationship with a woman (at 18 are they women or girls or gomen?) and commented on how much he liked that the physical part of the relationship was connected to love. Now I would not presume to judge or extrapolate his conception of love in that context but what was heartening was hearing a male profess the need to be in love to enjoy sex. It was cool he felt comfortable enough to disclose his thoughts to me. In my section it is an all male domain and invariably the discussions about sex can be rather crude and lewd. So having C share what he did was definitely a change.

No update on K who has declared I am her favourite in the store. Wonderful to hear and she has engaged me with some nice hugs but since we do not share similar shifts and I am now not working in her area regularly things may temper down a bit. Sigh. She is so damn cute! She posted her Halloween pictures on Facebook and she dressed as a naughty sailor girl. I'd love to tie her to the mizzen mast...